One in five new mothers experience perinatal depression and anxiety. And one in 10 new fathers. That’s 100,000 Australians every year, and suicide is the leading cause of maternal death. Nearly 50% of all parents experience adjustment disorders and it is often hidden and not fully understood. These are the facts, and we need to start talking about it so we can better support each other.
The Gidget Foundation offers a free video counselling service for new and expecting mums and dads who are experiencing perinatal anxiety and/or depression, and are unable to have a face to face consultation. As part of their Start Talking program, parents can receive up to seven free video counselling sessions.
So what is the Gidget Foundation?
Gidget was the nickname of a young mother who tragically took her own life while suffering postnatal depression. All those close to her were unaware she was suffering so desperately and were devastated by her death. Unfortunately, each year in Australia mothers lose their lives to this illness. The tragic loss of Gidget inspired her sisters and friends to establish a foundation in her name, with a passion to care for distressed families and offer them hope.
Gidget Foundation Australia is a not for profit organisation that provides programs to support the emotional wellbeing of expectant and new parents.
What is perinatal depression and anxiety?
Perinatal is the period while a woman is pregnant and the year after a baby is born. While it can be a uniquely special time, it is also a time of great adjustment, and the impact is often underestimated in our society. All expectant and new parents will have their good days and bad days, their ups and downs. But when bad days start to seriously outnumber the good, they may be at risk of perinatal anxiety and depression.
Perinatal anxiety and depression affects almost 100,000 expecting and new parents in Australia each year. It is a recognised and diagnosable medical condition, the result of biological, psychological and social factors. Men are not immune from perinatal anxiety and depression. Commonly, but certainly not always, this develops as reactive depression to a partner’s illness—it’s understandably difficult to be around a person who is ‘down’ all the time. In fact, if the mother is depressed, the whole family is affected: partner, baby and other children.
Perinatal anxiety and depression needs to be considered when:
- A parent is experiencing strong emotions which are impacting negatively on his or her ability to function in the usual way
- Low moods that have lasted for two weeks or more
- It is accompanied by a lack of enjoyment or pleasure in life, and an inability to plan for the future
Where can I get help?
Mothers and fathers do benefit from receiving professional help, and parents do recover. Early intervention and emotional support enables parents to move on to enjoy this time with their children.
For immediate help, contact PANDA on 1300 726 306 or call Lifeline on 13 11 14.
To contact the Gidget Foundation or to book an appointment with their supportive staff, send an email to firstname.lastname@example.org or call 1300 851 758.